Sweet Surrender – Day 5
January 05, 2018
“Get out of your own way.” “Just surrender control.” “You can’t do anything about it, so stop trying.” Well-meaning friends may see what our problem is—even if we can’t—and give us wise advice.
My standard reply is “How?”
Surrendering control isn’t like riding a bicycle, at least not for me. I have to learn it anew each time I do it.
Action: Surrendering means doing nothing about whatever you can’t do anything about. Try not to stare at it either. Do something else, something you can do. Try to relax, just a little. If you must do something, say “Thy will be done” and mean it.
From the book: 52 Weeks of Conscious Contact
About the author
In addiction and recovery circles, Melody Beattie is a household name. She is the best-selling author of numerous books.
One of Melody's more recent titles is The Grief Club, which was published in 2006. This inspirational book gives the reader an inside look at the miraculous phenomenon that occurs after loss--the being welcomed into a new "club" of sorts, a circle of people who have lived through similar grief and pain, whether it be the loss of a child, a spouse, a career, or even one's youth.