Let go of timidity

October 25, 2020


Live big!
— Brady Michaels 

Sometimes, that’s the best advice we can hear. Win or lose, succeed or fail, go for it, and go all the way. As my flight instructor told me on the first day of flying lessons, “Keep one hand on the throttle and one hand on the yoke.” “Aahhhhh!” I would say during my early lessons as the plane lifted into the air, but I kept the throttle pushed all the way in.

There are times when it’s wise to be cautious. And there are times when the best thing we can do—the only thing we can do—is go for it by living big. Ask her out. Request the raise. Say no—and mean it. Learn to drive a race car or climb a tall hill. Learn to snorkel or surf. Dreams remain dreams until you act upon them. Then they become real life.

Will you throw a few coins into the beggar’s cup, or will you bring him a hamburger and fries from the local fast-food place? Will you do an average job at work, or will you look for ways to go big—really give it your best—in the everyday areas of your job? Will you put your all—your heart and emotions—into the relationship with the people you love? Will you wait for another, more convenient time to pray, or will you start genuinely trusting God?

You don’t have to get a life. You’ve already got one. Live it, and live big.

God, help me let go of my fear and timidity, and learn to live big.

From the book: More Language of Letting Go

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About the author

In addiction and recovery circles, Melody Beattie is a household name. She is the best-selling author of numerous books.

One of Melody's more recent titles is The Grief Club, which was published in 2006. This inspirational book gives the reader an inside look at the miraculous phenomenon that occurs after loss--the being welcomed into a new "club" of sorts, a circle of people who have lived through similar grief and pain, whether it be the loss of a child, a spouse, a career, or even one's youth.

For more information about Melody and her books, visit the author's official website