Nurturing – Day 5

March 03, 2017


There’s plenty of time for discipline, criticism, tough love, and advice—later. For now, just for a minute, let nurturing be enough. Nurturing gestures include nonsexual touch, a genuine smile, a sympathetic ear, gentle words that truly convey concern or encouragement.

Nurturing can come in the form of small efforts: a cup of tea with honey, a meal cooked with love, a shoulder massage.

Action: Each day think of one small nurturing act you can do for someone else or for yourself. Maybe it’s smiling at the guy behind the deli counter. Maybe it’s telling someone what a good job they’re doing. C’mon. Get creative. Make it sincere. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. But you may need to push yourself a little—use some oomph—to get started. Translate that warm heart into actions that convey love.

From the book: 52 Weeks of Conscious Contact

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In addiction and recovery circles, Melody Beattie is a household name. She is the best-selling author of numerous books.

One of Melody's more recent titles is The Grief Club, which was published in 2006. This inspirational book gives the reader an inside look at the miraculous phenomenon that occurs after loss--the being welcomed into a new "club" of sorts, a circle of people who have lived through similar grief and pain, whether it be the loss of a child, a spouse, a career, or even one's youth.

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