Spiral up

I was flying the airplane one day, practicing my turns, when I turned to my instructor, Rob. “Something doesn’t feel quite right to me,” I said. “The horizon looks a little bit off.”

“That’s because you’ve got us in a graveyard spiral,” he said. “If you keep going like this, we’ll keep spiraling faster and faster until we lose control and crash into the ground.”

“Aaaah!” I said. “You’ve got the controls. Get us out of this mess.”

The spiral had just begun. Rob easily restored the plane to coordinated flight, with a slight twist of his wrist. I was greatly relieved.

Sometimes in life, we can get a little complacent. We begin grumbling about a few little things. We start seeing the negative things about our jobs, our families, our romantic relationships, our friends. Or we get weary and tired of being alone, and not being able to meet anyone we want to date. Maybe nothing is really wrong in our career, but it just isn’t giving us the pizzazz we’d prefer. So we start grumbling and complaining about how bad it is. We see other people making more money than we are, getting better breaks, and doing something that looks like more fun to us. It’s not that anything is wrong; it’s just that things don’t seem good enough.

Then we find more things that irritate us about our friends, our co-workers, and our boss. Soon, most of what we see looks depressing and wrong. The negative is accentuated in everything we see.

That’s a good indication that we’re in a graveyard spiral, too.

Some people in this world need a special technique to get peacefully, joyfully, and harmoniously through their lives. I’m not saying this applies to everyone, but I know it applies to me. Every day in my life, I need to deliberately, consciously apply large doses of gratitude to everything I see.

Look! If instead of seeing the beautiful horizon or the clouds, all you can see is down, apply gratitude and humility to each aspect of your life. In a few moments, you’ll restore yourself to coordinated flight.

God, help me use the powerful remedy of gratitude as a tool for daily transformation in my life.

From the book: More Language of Letting Go

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