Who do you say you are?

I was driving out to the skydiving center one day, mulling things over in my head. Before long, I’d be on the plane and it would be my time to walk to that door and jump out. The fears started brewing and building up. I don’t know if I can do this, I thought. I don’t even know if I want to become a sky diver or if this path is right for me.

“You already are a sky diver,” a quiet voice said.

That’s right, I thought.

When I first began recovering from my chemical dependency, I preferred to identify myself as a drug addict. “My name is Melody, and I am a drug addict,” I’d say quietly at the group. One member of the group started harping at me after hearing me identify myself this way. “You’re an alcoholic, too,” he said. “And you should label yourself as that.”

I resisted what he said for a while, and then I decided to give it a try. Finally at one meeting, I said the words aloud. “My name is Melody, and I am an alcoholic.”

Now, I understand why it was so important—not to him but to me—to label myself as an alcoholic. Number one, it was important because it was the truth. In order to focus on my recovery, I needed to abstain from using both alcohol and drugs. Number two, whether this friend knew it or not, he knew the power of the Great I Am.

He wasn’t asking me to degrade or limit myself. All he was asking me to do was identify who I really was and am. And by saying and acknowledging this, I helped create a new role, a new personality. I am now, at the time of this writing, by the grace of God, a recovering alcoholic and addict.

Most of us aren’t one single thing. We’re a parent, a student, maybe a recovering person, and a grown child. We form many new I am’s as we go through life.

Watch each time you say the words I am in a conversation or thought. Pay attention to the times you say I’m not, as well. Then spend some time reflecting not only on who you are, but who you want to become.

Discover the power in your life from saying I am.

Who do you say you are and you aren’t?

Give yourself a chance to become someone new.

God, help me understand and use correctly, to the best possible benefit of my growth, the power of the Great I Am.

From the book: More Language of Letting Go

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